(Closed) you have GOT to be kidding me…

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
482 posts
Helper bee

well i dont know about you, but im not fine with waiting. i think it makes it worse when everyone else around you is moving forward with their lives. but i try to redirect my focus. keyword is try. youre not the only one.

Post # 4
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1780 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I feel you….I try and avoid checking my facebook on christmas week, but sigh, my aunt insists on emailing me on there instead of to my regular email, and so i get on and check for her emails….and yup…i know 7 girls who have gotten engaged since last thursday…..Im normally a pretty patient woman…and would be alot more upset if I didnt know he was waiting on the ring to even arrive, and i know it wont happen until march probably….but i kinda get batty when i read the news feed, of girls who have had to wait much less, i ache for that sense of being more important than a girlfriend…..esp since im waiting till probably march, which our trip is a whopping, 9 weeks before our 6 year anniversary….sooo le sigh….the holidays sure make it hard to behave and keep focused on other areas….esp when i call my family and they automatically start asking if he proposed….sigh….oh well…such is life……

ps love the pic….completely how i feel right now…

Post # 5
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1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

it is the biggest season for engagements to occur. I heard of two new engagements this past week! It is crazy! Hang in there. It is very hard to be waiting

Post # 6
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1860 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@peonyinlove:  Ugh, I feel for you – I remember those days and there always happened to be “flurries” of engagements that happened all at once and it drove me bonkers! 🙂  Hang in there…

Post # 7
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309 posts
Helper bee

Yeah it’s all over my newsfeed…blah

 

one of them actually really shocked me as the guy is a friend of mine and said he would never marry that girl ( was stuck with her because she got pregnant) but lo and behold! She’s rockin a big ol shiner!

Post # 8
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1860 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MissTexasFire:  Just remember that a big ol shiner doesn’t come with a happy marriage guarantee.  🙂  I know it’s tough to see past the sparkly.. I felt the same way.

Post # 9
Member
309 posts
Helper bee

@E_Lynne615:  oh I definitely know that, I actually feel bad for her based on all the things he’s told me. She has no idea what she’s getting into, and I think it will be a very ugly end… I wish he would have come clean with her, especially for the sake of the child. Who knows though, maybe he had a change of heart? 

 

I hope it works out for them, the little girl is adorable 🙂

Post # 10
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1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Tis the season for engagements- I guess if I’m honest with myself I have never wanted a holiday proposal, but it’s still tough. My main concern is that so many couples just got engaged and will booking venues ASAP and by the time we get engaged everything for 2014 will be booked. Thanks SO, I will not only have to wait to get engaged, but then we will have to wait even longer to tie the knot. (sorry…mini-vent!)

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