You know YOUR man TRULY loves you if he won't let you do this?

posted 3 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
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442 posts
Helper bee

@BrideToBe14:  What in the world? My man would never say no. And he loves me more than anything else in the world.

Post # 4
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3089 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@BrideToBe14:  Nope!  That seems insane and weird to me.  I love giving DH head, I have never liked receiving it.  I don’t think it’s degrating at all.

Post # 5
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736 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@BrideToBe14:  My fiancé doesn’t want head. He says he doesn’t enjoy it, and it isn’t intimate enough for him to enjoy it. Oddly enough, he goes down on me every time during foreplay and LOVES IT. I had to get uses to this as I never enjoyed it before but do now.

 

I’m not disappointed. He’s rather large and I never enjoyed it anyway. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Wait … am I being punked? No way in hell would any guy refuse a bj, come on now. Doing it isn’t disrespectful and really has nothing to do with how much you love a person. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t mean to be rude but that’s honestly one of the strangest things I’ve ever heard in my life.  Oral sex is oral sex, not a big deal.  I love giving (and receiving) and it’s just a sexual thing, no different from any other.  It has nothing to do with love or not love.  Sex is sex, love is love.  I’d be concerned if a man said that to me because: #1 – I wouldn’t believe it for a second; and, #2 – sounds like the guy might have some madonna/whore issues going on in his head.  To not have respect for a woman just because she’s sucking your dick is really weird to me.  And mentally unhealthy sounding.

Post # 9
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5932 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@BrideToBe14:  …yeah, this actually happened A LOT, during the Victorian Period…

Post # 10
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2913 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

What the what? I don’t see any correlation between love and BJs.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@BrideToBe14:  AND…what the hell does their job or who they work for have to do with who sucks their dick?

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@juliana192:  +1.  

My guy loves very few things more than a blow job, any time any where – but one of them is most definitely me.  They’re not mutually exclusive, at least not in my world.

Post # 13
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928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@juliana192:  haha right?

 

Yeah to be honest, it would be a cold day in hell before my FI passed that up. I guess I see all types of sex acts with him as an intimate thing so it doesn’t make sense to me to say ‘I love you too much to participate in this intimate, pleasurable thing.’

Post # 15
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1441 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

That is so messed up. I am glad my sex life does not involve a madonna/whore complex or a quid pro quo approach to foreplay. 

Post # 16
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

@BrideToBe14:  Everyone’s different, but to me, this is silly. 

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