(Closed) you’ll be proud, I did it..I THREW HER OUT!!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Yea for you, good job.  I bet you’ll like looking at your wedding pictures a lot more since she won’t be in them.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

Good for you 🙂 I hope you feel better and the wedding plans and celebrations can go on without all that stress!

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Good for you girl, way to be strong.  Glad you got rid of the toxicity and you can move on to the happy things.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wanted to read all three of the posts that went together before I responded. I am glad that you took her out, however, how will Brenda feel? Will she side with Jennifer and want to be out of the wedding too? (I know you wouldn’t care that much if she was out either!) So, what did Jennifer say when you wrote her? Or has she even written you back yet? I was curious about a couple things…how old are you girls and is that girl Maria a bridesmaid too? She sounded horrible. My take on the whole situation is that those friends of yours are quite toxic and depressing. I know it’s hard to get rid of friends that you’ve had since h.s. because they tend to linger on and you feel a sense of obligation to them. I think they are jealous of you and that you are happy now but they also have serious insecurities that stem from their own circumstances that have happened to them.  I’m not saying all divorced people are negative, but they tend to feel a certain way about marriages because theirs did not work out. I think you need to surround yourself with positive people in your life and with people that are supportive and love you for who you are. Even in the email you sent to Jennifer you said you were aware of things you needed to work on yourself. I think that’s a great quality to have that you know your weaknesses and try to work on them…I’m the same way. The other girls are obviously not aware of their weaknesses. I could not believe when she tried to get you “set up” with her friend and the reasons she said you were similiar. G-d what a bitch she was…You deserve to be sooo happy now and I’m glad you ditched her as a friend. I’d say get rid of those other girls in that group as well. The only reason I see that they could possibly be upset would be if you went on and on about how happy you are and how great your FI is. Most divorcees or negative people don’t want to hear that or even single girls because it tends to make them sad. If you relate to them saying yeah I know some guys can be jerks, etc. etc. I’m sorry it happened to you and then just be happy yourself knowing inside that your guy is amazing and will doubtful even do those horrible things to you. I wouldn’t even want to hang around women like that that complain all day. It brings you down. Anyways, best of luck, let us know what happens, and congrats on your August wedding. 🙂

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Congrats! I’m all for kicking up bad bridesmaids/friends

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Good for you!! 🙂

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sounds like all these girls are immature – I was shocked to hear they are in their 30’s – I was going to guess like 20 if that!  Your wedding day is about you and your husband to be and that is IT!   You should not have to send emails or flowers or anything else for that matter!  This is your day – don’t waste another breath, stroke of the keyboard, or dime on this b*tch…or anyone else who doesn’t support you for that matter!!

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