Your opinion on this ?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8387 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Lulume:  Um, I think your husband’s co-worker is a bit rude, especially since she brought someone that wasn’t even invited.  I think the only thing you can do is be courteous and thank her for the card, then don’t invite her to anything else lol.

Post # 4
4441 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@Lulume:  Maybe she pressed the wrong button on TK’s RSVP process?  That’s the only thing that seems reasonable to me…. I don’t think she tried to crash seeing as she acted like she was supposed to be there and brought a present.

Post # 5
2878 posts
Sugar bee

At least she had the politeness to offer 100$. I would not hold it against her. If it’s really the only problem you had at your wedding (and it sounds like you had a great time), I would let it go, really. I don’t think she did this to crash your wedding or in a mean-spirited way. 

Caterers usually plan extra meals (mine will, and so would all of those we’ve met) for cases exactly like this, and that is included in the price we’ve already paid so there are no extra fees.

Post # 6
790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Lulume: you say skimpy, is that something she dosent usually do? or does it look like she was heading to the night club and got lost? all i can say is atleast she gave some $$ i mean you had to pay for her and her “husband”(i mean girlfirneds) food so i guess that was nice… but kinda rude to split after eating did she say goodbye?

Post # 7
2064 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013


idk at my wedding there were def. ppl who came that said they were not and people who said they would come…and didnt. so not surprized. at least she gave you 100$.

Post # 9
122 posts
Blushing bee

Poor etiquette for her to show up without an RSVP, but I’m sure no harm was intended by it, and maybe there was a misunderstanding. I’m glad that things worked out okay; I’d just try to put it out of your mind as much as you can. I’m glad you didn’t have more guest list trouble than that!

Post # 10
3835 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Lulume:   Huh?  Is she splitting up with her husband, and wanted to come without him, and that was her way of doing it without making an annoucement?  That sure is odd.  

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