Your Opinions/Advice Wanted!!!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

Or… OR…. he is doing a spectacular job of tricking your pants off and there IS a ring coming?!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Snuggle:  My advice might sound cheesy and not be very helpful at all… 

I also wanted a ring very bad! Even though I knew the guy wanted to marry me we both wanted the ring as a symbol of love and commitment. But what always got me through the sad feelings I had was the thought of being grateful for what I have right now.

I never thought I would have a guy as amazing as I did (and still have yey), that would love me so much and fight for me so hard!

I know the wait is SOOOOO VERY HARD, but sometimes the longing of the future makes us waste the beautiful times we have now.

Stay strong! *hugs for you*

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

I dunno babe it sounds like he’s gonna propose! Do you all talk about marriage? Don’t be afraid to tell him that’s what you want! 

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2015

This is EXACTLY how I was! We were dating for 2 years and bought a home together. I was like uh any day now please! I think sometimes you can’t help but feel a little dissapointed when it doesn’t happen but that’s why you need to relax! I used to think “this is the day this is the day” and when it wasn’t I was mad at him. But you can’t take it out on him! When it happens it will happen. Mine was a few days ago and I wasn’t expecting it at all. 

I agree don’t be afraid to talk about marriage. We did. After we bought our home, we looked at rings and I made it clear what I wanted and I think that got the ball rolling lol. 

Be grateful for what you have now, though. There are other ways to tell your man is serious and wants to be with you forever than a ring 

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