YOU'RE burnt out?!?! (FI funny story)

posted 3 years ago in Beehive
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  • Wedding: June 2014 - Italiano's Humble

roguehnp2005:  We haven’t gone through this just yet. But, I start school tomorrow, am still looking for a job, and it’s crazy.

We don’t fight about anything, much less money. We’re just really matter of fact about it. This month, honestly, we paid bills, and were like “we have exactly $254 for groceries, and gas”. That’s with him having a doctors appointment an hour away(in the gas cost section LOL), and my having to pick my son up an hour away for my weekend next Friday. So, it was one of those months where we thank our bank for not charging OD fees, did food shopping, and intentionally drove our account about $180 negative for fuel. The $180 wasn’t intentional. It should’ve been more like $60. EXCEPT, our electric company sent an email about us allegedly owing $78 on our old address, and they decided to just debit it 🙁 But, thanks to no OD fees, and the fact our pet deposit and rental deposits were paid off this month, we won’t be so strapped next month.

 

Otherwise, while we don’t stress alot, it stresses him when he knows I’m bothered about something. Especially, if it’s something he can’t control, or something he just literally has no dog in(like my MOH issues, or helping my other MOH plan stuff, or baby daddy drama). It annoys him to all hell, when literally the only thing he can do, is hold my hand(not literally LOL).

I’m more in your position when it comes to stuff around the house. I’ll start cleaning, and he’ll try to help clean the SAME ROOM. Then, I get all “OMG like there’s no other area needing attention!”…and he gets butthurt, because he’s trying to “help”. NO, what you’re doing is, the SAME EXACT SH!T I JUST DID, and now I see YOUR area is still dirty!(His office area of the family room, is TOTALLY his responsibility, and HIS alone LOL).

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