Post # 1
so today booked our reception venue, everything is going perfect lalala
well let me explain the back story –FI & I got into the worst argument ever on saturday, it was so horrible and sad 🙁 and half of it happened at a party.. I’m really embarassed about that part. anyway by monday night we had talked and cleared everything and we’re back to being great!
anyway so I get on FB and my friend who wasn’t at the party but his ex was writes on my wall- hey I heard all about the drama at the party, I hope the wedding is still happening I told so and so that I had my outfit ready and that the wedding best still be on!!! love you…
his ex-boyfriend was at the party and I’m guessing he’s the one who told him, (they’re still close friends) anyways I deleted it, and I’m hoping no one or at least not a lot of people saw it .. why would you write that on someone’s wall?? I hope the wedding is still happening.. you don’t do that!!!
He was on the guest list but now I”m seriously reconsidering!!!
—-blah I edited the post… the guy who wrote on my wall wasn’t at the party but his ex was.. I’m still angry that I’m typing all wrong
Post # 3
what a little shit! why would you write something like that!? x_x sorry for the mess, hopefully you nipped it quickly!
Post # 4
@pandaboo: WOAH how RUDE!!! He sounds like an instigator trying to cause some more drama since he missed it…some people have all the nerve. Don’t feel bad, maybe nobody saw it. Just brush it off, happy wedding planning!
Post # 5
Ignore it. Take a happy pic with you and Fiance and call it a day.
Post # 6
yeah, just delete and move on, that’s what i do and I really can’t understand why people post certain stuff on facebook!
an acquaintance of mine had a full-fledge battle with her FH on her facebook wall in the month before they got married….which was even crazier since it was the bride and groom themselves posting their crazy fight for all to see!
Post # 7
@pandaboo: Wowwwww. That is just a big NO NO in my book! Can someone say RUUUUUUDEEEEEEEEE?!?!?!?!?
I am so sorry! 🙁 Try not to worry about it & maybe post something about your wedding in a few days or something. So the people (if any) who saw that RUDE comment don’t start asking you questions to make you even more upset about it.
Post # 8
Wow that crazy!!! I would never write on someone wall everytime i heard they and their SO got in to it. I mean it’s a part of being married. #smh
Post # 9
I totally agree that it was rude to write that on your wall. But to play devil’s advocate, you did say that some of your huge argument happened in public in front of a lot of people, so that cat is kind of out of the bag.
Post # 10
@elliestan: yeah I think it was on my page for less than 20 mins.. so hopefully only the fb fanatics saw it!
@mexicanabeibi: thank you 🙂 yeah I’m just going to ignore it and not even say anything to him unless he brings it up to me since i obviously deleted it.
@cerulean713: yeah Fiance and I never post anything about arguments on FB, i think it’s immature and only causes more problems.
@Sweet.Sugar.Rose: thank you 🙂 and good idea! I will !
@MrsDiddles: exactly.. people fight in relationships, doesn’t mean it’s over or a wedding won’t happen..
@Phantom: I understand but the fight happened late at night, almost at 2 am, only 7 people were left at the party and the person who wrote on my wall wasn’t even there.. so I don’t know why he’d bring it up and say the wedding better still be on.. just so UNECESSARY..
Post # 11
thank you bees 🙂 you ladies really make me feel better and now I know I”m not overreacting and that his comment really was rude. I told Fiance and he said let’s ignore it and he thought it was totally innapropriate .
Post # 13
OMG, who says that? but posting it on your FB wall? rude and intetionally rude, that was no oopsie I didn’t mean it.
Post # 14
I know as of now he’s no longer invited. Unless he seriously apologizes. People are thoughtless
Post # 15
Wow that’s awful! How rude, you don’t write something like that on someone’s wall as much as you wouldn’t say that to someone while holding a microphone.
Post # 16
That was really lame of that guy to post on your wall… I would have thought once/if he noticed you deleted it, he’d have apologized. Some people just have no sense of decency. I think you should still invite him though. It sounds like he just doesn’t know better…