Post # 1
Ok so I am getting married in less than a month now and for some reason I am not at all excited. I am currently working on my masters and swamped with work but I thought when I got engaged I would be so excited about planning but I just don’t care about anything to do with the wedding. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with my FH but weddings seem to be not my thing. Has anyone else felt like this or am I just crazy!
Post # 3
You are so not crazy! Even up until the night before my wedding I just wasn’t all that excited about it anymore. I still had a lot to do, I was feeling almost overwhelmed, and I just wanted to sleep because I was TIRED from the busy day! Then, the morning of, I also just felt kind of like “meh” until I started getting my hair and makeup and stuff and read over the vows we were going to exchange later. That did the trick! Then the excitement FINALLY kicked back in lol And I was on top of the world the rest of the day! I really suggest reading over your vows if you’re feeling bummed about it. That always brought the butterflies back for me 🙂
Post # 4
you’re not crazy. i don’t understand the expectation that every woman MUST WANT to plan every detail of the wedding. i’d be quite happy outsourcing it all.. or better yet waking up one day married. i’m about 3 wks out.. it’s all about blocking and tackling, checking things of the list.
Post # 5
bon, I hope you at least have most of the planning done already? If not, you may want to hire someone at this point. Good luck!
Post # 6
You’re not crazy. I think that we all feel like that at some point. But I would agree with other responders here, if the wedding isn’t mostly planned and ready, then NOW would be a good time to bring in some help…Good Luck!
Post # 7
Thanks for the responses everyone! And yes the wedding is pretty much completely planned just a few things to tie up so that is not an issue at all, I am a pretty organized person! I am sure it will hit me sooner to the date and if not hopefully the day of!!
Post # 8
oh my gosh I cant wait till my wedding im super siked wish it was here now.