Post # 121
I hope you are feeling better now. It’s admirable that you had the courage to leave when you realized this relationship was not right for you. Several women stay in unhappy relationships despite knowing they are not getting what they want.
Post # 122
Have you found a place and moved yet?? I would do that *immediately*. Are still living there ? What a fucken tool he is.
Post # 123
What a jerk!
Bee, I’m glad you didn’t give him one more day of your life.
Post # 124
Unbelievable. He wanted to carry on with one foot out the door! That is not what love is. And if it’s just a piece of paper then what’s the big deal. And seriously, fighting in courts? So he didn’t trust you. I’ve been divorced and the process was a piece of cake. Just paperwork and supplying info. I didn’t cause a problem and neither did my ex. So he’s saying he thinks you would and wants to protect himself. What a love story. I think you should pat yourself on the back for moving on instead of trying to justify how he feels. You are now free for the right person. Don’t worry.
Post # 125
Thank you for the messages. Means a lot because the last few days have been hard. I have been asking myself if I just was not good enough but I know this is more about his fears than my shortcomings.
Yes, I moved out and I’m in temporary accommodation. I could not live with him for even one more day. I’m furious that he wasted an entire year of my life and led me on buying a ring and assuring me that a proposal was not far away in the summer. He knows I want children and at 33, I don’t have much time, yet he only thought about his own needs.
Post # 126
He repeated the same point everytime. Couples should stay together while they are happy but should have the freedom to walk away without going through courts and lawyers when they want to split.
Post # 127
you’re not his one and he shouldn’t have led you on. However, when you find your one it’s going to be glorious. I promise