Post # 1
That’s really all I have to say. 10 years, 6 of those apart… it is so brutal. Visits are 2-3 times a year.
There is hope that we may be reunited next month, but it’s only hope – there is equal chance he won’t be able to relocate.
Our wedding is next spring, and it’ll be held where he lives. I hold hope for that being the time when he can come back with me and we’ll be together finally, but again, there is also equal chance that he won’t be able to relocate then either.
At worst, it’ll be another 2 years apart… but C’MON. Thinking about it frustrates me so much, because how much of my young life am I supposed to spend suffering in a LDR?!
Wish I could be more specific, but I’ve said too much already.
Post # 3
I’m a wee bit lost, but sorry to hear you have been apart for so long.
Post # 4
Keep strong, girl!! LDR is sooo stinking hard, and you’re amazing for keeping it going and alive for six long years! A lot of women would have given up in your situation, and it’s so admirable that you were able to keep love alive despite the distance!
You can do it; spring is coming soon!!!
When’s your next visit???
Post # 5
I hope that you two can figure it out so that you will be living in the same place. Is there any way that one of you could be temporarily out of work while you move in with the other one?
Post # 6
Oh my goodness… you both deserve a medal! I know its so hard being apart for so long, but he is obviously worth the distance and the pain. I’ve been at it for 1/2 as long as you have & its so hard some days- I am in awe of your determination to be with one another. I am going to send some good vibes your way & keep you in my thoughts! I really hope a solution will present itself so you can move forward & one day be together for good.
Do you two get to talk on the phone on a regular basis? How do you connect? Keep positive & take joy in the little moments you have/had together.