12 days off our 1st wedding anniversary and he threw a phone in my face

posted 8 months ago in Relationships
Post # 106
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

zl27 :  great advice

Post # 107
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Busy bee

my first thought was see about getting him a physical and couseling if you want to give it another chance.

But when I read of his response and it sounds like he has no remorse, and I imagine thinks it’s your fault, I think you need to see what you can do to get out of there. Sometimes marriages are mistakes, and that’s it.

I think look into options available to you, community services, whatever may be available. I’m sorry this is happening, but things often get worse before getting better! I hope things go better for you!

Post # 108
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Wishing you continued strength in this very tough time Bee! 

Post # 109
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Bumble bee

bichonbabies :  

Being that I was in a prior abusive relationship this just would be a super big deal breaker for me.

1. He threw a phone full speed at you’re head.

2. You should be VERY afraid at that.

3. He had no remorse for his actions?

RUN!

Post # 110
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Helper bee

I’m just beyond impressed by OP’s composure. I can’t even imagine how I would deal w/ something like this. 

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