Post # 1
I just spent my ENTIRE sunday frantically doing wedding stuff and am completely exhausted. Half of it was on finishing up our ceremony, which we’re writing ourselves. Then i realized that all the parts Fiance had put in there (which were just transcribed passages from one of those how-to-write-a-ceremony books) i edited out. I nagged him to look over it when he was done, and he hates when I demand things right then and there. So, we got annoyed at each other.
Granted, he cooked and cleaned and took care of our finances all day, so it’s not like he didn’t do anything. I’m just so tired of dedicating every bit of free time to making all this happen! Every time I check something off the list, I think of 5 more things I have to do. It doesn’t help that I’m super indecisive and make the same decisions over and over again. Does it get any better in the next 17 days? 🙁
Post # 3
Breath your almost there. Honstly you will be glad you got done what you did and won’t remember what you didn’t. If I could go back I would have a wedding free day a week if I could. No planning, no talking about it, no appointments, no bee just life
Post # 4
i get your feel, dear. That’ your big day, yours and your FI’s. Sometimes, male can not be as attentive as female. We may notice some details, while they may say it’s ok， not a big deal, then agnore it finally.
just calm down, list the details you need to do, then ask him to process one by one.
Post # 5
Hello, June bride 🙂 I am getting married 2 days after you!! I feel you..you’re not alone feeling this way!! I was like you maybe 2 weeks ago, then i realized my “To do” list was becoming shorter and shorter..so i created new ones : “Honeymoon list”, “What to take to my parents’ house on the previous day” “What the groom can’t forget to take” “what to pack in the girls’ suitcases” HA! Nevermind the lists too much – they are here to help us not losing track of the million tiny things we need to do, but in the end what matters is WE’RE GETTING MARRIED!!!!!! 🙂
Hugs and if you need any help, just say so!
Post # 6
My wedding is the day after yours and I can so relate. I had the mother of all stress coldsores (8 or 9 clusters!) brew up on my bottom lip last week from the stress. I will be glad when this is all over! Wedding planning is not for the faint of heart!!!
@Rivendeler: I’m with you too…the mental lists have begun…soon to be put to paper!!! 🙂 Good luck to all of us! 🙂
Post # 7
@GDub: I hope I forget that I ever read your post, lol. I am prone to getting cold sores if I am extremely stressed. I think I would find some yoga or natural anti-stress meds or something.
@rosewater7: I have 45 days to my wedding, and I WISH it were 18 days or less. I understand how you are stressing. I have more days that you, and I am ready for the day to get here already and be done with this stuff. Best of luck, hon, and I bet you (and GDub) are going to make a beautiful bride. Try to breathe 🙂