- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
Only 2 days left till our big day, and since my last post, the drama is still about the same. I have really been so worried about who is going to show up and what I’m going to have to deal with on the big day. I called my mom’s best friend on Tuesday afternoon, ( this is my cousin’s brother, the one that basically rushed through my bachelorette party to get home to her man) to make sure that he was still coming to dinner, because my cousin A told my mom he wasn’t coming when we were out to dinner for my B-party, (which i feel that its really nice that she didn’t have the decency to tell me that, being its my wedding and all) and I call him and he was like “oh no, sorry I won’t be able to make it, I had bought tickets for the big MMA fight in Baltimore that night” I am thinking OH great! when were you going to tell me that? its now at that time, three days before the wedding. My dad is very upset, as he and my father are very close and he didnt even tell my parents this and they live together!
And my cousin A, is supposed to pick up my friend Carolyn to come to dinner after the ceremony. Me being the nice person that I am, sent A an email to make sure that she was still going to do that. I get an email back today, saying the following:Yeah, Ill pick her up…not sure what time tho. ill call her. So I just emailed her back and said. Ok. the dinner starts at 5:30. And my mom is like, that is so rude and inconsiderate, and if she shows up late, she will not be allowed to eat with us. My mom feels that these people think just because it is a small intimate occassion that A. it didnt cost that much, and B. its not that big of a deal. This is really one of the biggest days of my life, and we are having the reception at a 5 star restaurant in MD. it was not cheap! regardless of the amount of people attending. I have just been an emotional wreck, not only cause I am nervous with pre wedding jitters, but because these people are just making it hard for me to be happy about the big day. I mean I am still very excited regardless and I know i shouldn’t worry about them, but I guess its just I wish i would have just invited the family members I had to omit to invite them, because they threw such a big fit about not being invited. I am really kicking myself now, and i am really going to send both A, carolyn, and my moms best friend a letter after this, to let them know how dissappointed I am, and how this has truly hurt my feelings. They have really done nothing but cause me heartache, and i just dont understand how they cant realize this is not about them. I am only asking for a few hours of their time, and its not like im making them pay for anything. I just dont understand.
All things aside. I cannot WAIT to be Mrs.W.:)