- 2 years ago
so I joined this website to get some advice. I am completely lost and have no idea what to do.
My fiance is in the military and I am professional and we both met in Germany (both of our jobs sent us here ) and we are here for 2 more years. He is currently deployed but we decided to get married when he comes back. We got engaged last August.
We decided to have two weddings. One over here to get it official and so we can finally live together. And one in the States sometime next year for our families and friends. Here is the thing…this small wedding will be at a court house. My parents are coming for sure and we will have 3 other people. So total 7 people. Lots of arguments between us has been happening lately due to this small wedding. At first, we only wanted it to be the 2 of us but we need witnesses and my parents insist on coming to both weddings. I even said I could explain to them not to come or just not tell them the date but now, after several arguments, my fiance wants them to come.
The biggest problem I am having is what to wear. I wanted a white dress because after all, it will be the day we get officially married. My fiance wants to go casual. He said….”wear some nice dress”. I am tired of arguing over this and I am looking for some help here. What dress should I wear since I am going to wear a wedding gown at our second and big wedding?
SHould I even hire a photographer since I am not going to wear a wedding dress?