- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
I love my family, and i really love my grandmother.
I do want to make her happy with all my heart.
I am not angry that she wants to invite so many poeple, as my dad and her are helping pay. BUT.
I am finding it very stressful 2 weeks to my wedding, doing guest list cards, remaking table numbers, printing invites. etc. and a lot of the DIY craft i have i am unable to get again on such short notice.
My dad is doing best he can to tell her “no” however he is starting to get very stressed. Mind you I set a fake deadline 2 months ago and every day my phone goes beep. beep. with new names. For every 10 people my dad says no to, 1 person gets an invite. (Also trying to hunt down someones address I don’t know or have never meet to send them an invite)
Initiallty a small wedding of about 30 people has turned into 106 and still growing.
I guess i just need to focus on the funny side, as my dad is probably taking a lot of the stress on himself.
Such as saying “no” to inviting the real estate agent that sold her property, the lady at the bank, the lady she buys bread from, the uncle that stole the familys money.
But then again, guests lists and family huh, i guess i am not alone,… right?