(Closed) 20 questions for your SO

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
9139 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

How would you describe your childhood?  Do you want to raise your own child the same or different and why?

This is a great conversation to have because you can learn about his relationship with his parents, their discpline styles,whether he wants kids at all, etc….

Post # 4
14658 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

The easy ones that come to mind are…

How much debt do you have?  Especially credit card?

What are your retirement goals?

Do you want kids?  How many?

Do you like to travel?  Dream vacation?

Dogs or cats?


Post # 5
2066 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

biggest regret. i think you a learn a lot about a person by their regrets.

Post # 6
1999 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Favourite and least favourite music, film, TV show. Those are just for fun 🙂

Favourite and least favourite food; do you cook? You can learn so much about someone through their eating habits 🙂 

Which school subject did you love/hate most? 

Biggest achievement?


Post # 8
1108 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

What would you do if you won the lottery?

What is your dream job?

Who are your role models?

Post # 10
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

  1. Describe your best friend.
  2. What is your favorite food?
  3. What is your favorite movie?
  4. Which family members are you closest to?
  5. Would you ever like to have children?
  6. How high is your sex drive?
  7. Do you have a criminal record?
  8. What do you hate most about being in a relationship?

Post # 11
9548 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

What would you do if you won $100k?

what  do you want out of a life partner?

Post # 12
2433 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

1. What is your dream job? Do you forsee us needing to move in the next 5 years to attain your career goals?


2. Are you completely finished with higher education? Would you ever consider going back for your Master’s/Doctorate/Professional degree? 


3. What would you like for us to accomplish together as a couple before we have kids?


4. When we do have kids, who should stay home with them? Or would we send them to daycare or a relative’s house? 


5. What’s your favorite chore to complete around the house? Least favorite?


6. How would you prefer to cover finances? Will we combine bank accounts or keep them separate? Have one person in charge of all the monthly bills, or divide the responsibility between both of us?

ETA: I just saw I misread this! I thought these were questions for you to ask your fiance. I’ll leave these up, although some of them will definitely not need to be asked until much later Laughing

Post # 13
641 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Flight or Invisibility? Why?

I have to credit John Hodgeman with that one!

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