- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
To start out, I know many are going to feel this is rude or cruel but I also don’t know what else to do.
Although I have a younger sister who is 20, I am not including her as a bridesmaid. Instead, my 3 bridesmaids will be some of my closest friends. After discussing this with my sister (she was of course upset) but I had brought up the idea of her being some sort of Ring Bearer in my wedding. I felt this role would suit better for her since I did want her involved in the wedding but not as a bridesmaid. The idea is that she will assist in walking with our 3 year old neice who is our flower girl.
I realize this may be demeaning to my sister but she now seems excited at the idea. I am trying to create a more appropiate role name for her other than “Ring Bearer”. I thought of Junior Bridesmaid but is she a little too old to take on that role?