(Closed) 2nd time…?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It’s four months in. Of course you love each other like nothing else-you haven’t gone through any hard times, or problems yet.

There is nothing wrong with starting a relationship if you feel you’re ready (which you obviously do), but getting married and having kids so soon, especially with kids already involved is a whole other ball game. At 26 your have a LOT of time to still have kids-why rush? Take your time and get to know this guy before committing to anything so serious.

The trip sounds wonderful though, and I think it would be a great chance to meet his daughter.

Post # 5
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Take your time.  If you don’t feel ready yet then you’re not ready yet.  I never thought I would get married again until I had been dating my current Fiance for a year and every one of our conversations started with “if we get married…”  You can enjoy being with him without talking about marriage if you’re not ready.  Let him know it’s not out of the question but you want to give it a year and/or be divorced from your first husband before seriously discussing marriage again.

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