(Closed) 2nd wedding

posted 8 years ago in Jewish
Post # 3
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

what does your Fiance think?  I doubt he cares too much what kind of veil you wear..but if I’m wrong and he wants you to wear it, can you perhaps make changes to the veil? If you can’t, maybe just wear it differently. Or wear it for the ceremony then change to the one you want to wear.  It should be up to you whether or not to wear it. It is YOUR wedding day look, so it should be something you would be happy with. I love your dress by the way..

Post # 4
1963 posts
Buzzing bee

I wouldn’t wear it but is this is Jewish for a reason?  If there are symbolic religious reasons to wear the family veil that may change my mind.

Post # 7
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

Personally wearing a used veil from my fi’s ex wife would really weird me out. I love tradition, but sometimes you just have to break it. I don’t think it’s fair for his family to expect you to wear that veil.

Post # 8
565 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I wouldn’t be able to wear the same veil his ex-wife used, that’d just be creepy to me.  maybe you can compromise with his family, or incorporate some other family tradition besides the veil.  or maybe just talk to his family that it’s uncomfortable for you.  they should understand.

Post # 9
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i would never wear anything his ex-wife did.

Post # 11
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@kitzy: Agreed, but that’s just me.  I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it.

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