(Closed) 3 pregnancies in 5 months, tired of this rollercoaster

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
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Sugar bee
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gyrobb:  it’s absolutely normal. I know I’d be in the same boat. Miscarriages take so much out of you. Just take it day by day and you will get excited.

I had a MC a 9 weeks in March and in the TWW now. I am petrified of having to go through the first trimester again and scared of another MC. It is normal.

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Maybe you and your husband should speak together  to your doctor about the best birth control options for you. You sound like you need a break from being pregnant (both physically and emotionally). I know you’re currently pregnant so perhaps plan to have that conversation once you deliver? take some time where it will be almost guaranteed to not become pregnant.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

huge hugs!

This must be tough.  I have no personal experience but I just wanted to send you some love and hope that this one might be the one 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Omg I saw this title and you are my twin. Have also had 2 miscarriages in 5months and just found out i’m pregnant again. Last month I also said I don’t know if I can cope with all of this anymore but here we are. My husband was positive I wasn’t pregnant this month, especially as my ovulation was off due to the miscarriage in March but here we are. Had my hcg tested yesterday and it was on the very very low end of normal so don’t know how it’s going to pan out. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

P.s I get not feeing excited. I was saying to my DH how unfair it is that the magic and excitement and joy of pregnancy has gone for us and even for our immediate family who also know what we’ve been through. 

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Your feelings are completely understandable! If it were me I’m sure I would feel the same. Just try to take care of yourself during this time. Good luck with everything.

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Busy bee
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gyrobb:  I have not suffered a MC like you but I can only imagine how you must feel. This first trimester has been so hard for me. Doing it 3 times with two losses would be more than I could bear. 

I really hope this is your sticky baby and that you can find peace and relief soon. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Oh but I hope this is a sticky baby for you and your hubby!! Wouldn’t that be just wonderful! ♡ I’m sure it’s overwhelming be because your hormones must be all over the place, but hopefully they will level off in the next few weeks. I really am pulling for you!!! Hang in there momma! 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Just wanted to say I wish you all the best. I had a missed miscarriage in August, about a week before I would have been announcing that I was 12 weeks. I took 3 months off and got pregnant again in December and am now 17 weeks. But the first trimester joy was totally robbed from me. I was paranoid and nervous most of the time. It totally makes sense and you are entitled to feel how you feel. I am so sorry for your losses and I hope this is the one that sticks. 

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Sugar bee
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Horseradish:  holy, that’s harsh. Taking a cycle or two off when TTC is totally different than not using birth control correctly.

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

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gyrobb:  I went through a rollercoaster last year of taking ages to conceive to pregnancy and mc. I had 3 and then decided to take a break. I got pregnant the next month by accident and I felt exactly like you. The first tri was tough but I had an amaziNg doctor behind me who gives me very regular scans. I’m now 29 weeks and it’s been SO worth it. I really hope this is the one for you. Stay strong x

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

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Pollywog:  dude, chill. I’m not being harsh at all. The OP says she is tired of the emotional and physical roller coaster she has been on lately, she wants a break. And this is on the heels of an unexpected pregnancy. She deserves to have some confidence in her ability to prevent pregnancy when she wants a break and there is no better way to get that confidence than speaking to a doctor who knows the op, knows her goals and her desires. I never said she didn’t use birth control correctly. No method is 100%. If she truly wants a break for her body and soul, then she deserves to have a 100% break.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
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gyrobb:  Totally normal to not be excited just yet. I’m currently experiencing my first MC and I KNOW when the time comes and I get pregnant again, I will be a nervous wreck. FX this is your sticky baby!!

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phoebephoebo:  Your success made me teary eyed! I’m feeling hopeless after my first MC, can’t imagine going through this THREE times. 

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