- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
GRRRRR!!!! GROWL!!!!! HISS!!!! So ready to kill everyone!
Alright…No more of that..LOL So check all this out. Our wedding is 11-5-11, 3 weeks away (omg.) and I really don’t need anymore unnecessary stress. But it keeps coming! This whole process hasn’t been a problem since I PLANNED EVERYTHING up to my shower 2 weeks ago. That’s where all the crap began.
I was not supposed to have a shower. We have a honeymoon registry and we also live together. Nuff said. I told my girls and my mom AND MY GUESTS that i was not having one. So guess what happens? My Maid/Matron of Honor and my mom want to have a shower. Now i look like an A-hole for telling people I wasn’t. I also did not want a shower because I hate getting “double whammied” with shower gifts and wedding gifts AND bachy gifts….so I did not want this to happen to my girls or guests. But, my opinion didn’t count (obviously) and they threw together a pot luck gathering within 2 weeks. I was not happy with it. Instead of just telling guests about our honeymoon registry my Maid/Matron of Honor and mother come up with gift cards to CVS and Walmart. Great. Just what we need. And no, I’m not being ungreatful. i appreciate the gifts, but it’s not what we need or what we asked for.
Fiance was divorced almost 10 years ago. So you’d think he would have this paper work? Nope. And since it’s been so long, we got the wonderful trat of driving all the way to Trenton to get a copy to prove he was divorced so we can file for our marriage license. Joy. Now we still can’t get our license because Fiance doesn’t have his SS card. We have to show his current tax return to prove he has one (ridiculous) he refuses to do it because he doesn’t want people seeing his information. Now he wants to go to the local SS office and try to get a new card. You’ve got to be kidding me, I’m going to kill him. Now.
Which brings me to our Bachy parties. Mine is this weekend. I sad more than 6 months ago i wanted to go out locally to save money (no limos, pricey drinks, etc.). Again, my opinion is crap according to everybody else, so they made their own plan. This plan involved limos and strippers and basically spending a tun of money. That plan has been squashed because NO ONE has any money to pay for it. My mother, who is paying for our wedding, was going to front the hundreds of dollars for a limo. Um, no. People who were supposed to go backed out making it worthless for such a excursion. So we are back to my plan to go locally. Fiance is going to drive us and basically we can only spend like $20 on drinks cause I’m a lightweight (LOL!). Enter more problems. Now the people who backed out earlier, MIGHT want to go now. Now they won’t have a ride there, so I’m supposed to figure that out. Oh and on top of all of that, I”M PLANNING MY OWN PARTY. My Maid/Matron of Honor has done nothing, made no phone calls to tell anyone about it, nothing. I even bought my own party favors. So here we are on Tuesday, still no plan. Still don’t know who’s going, who’s driving. Nothing.
Fiance wasn’t going to have a bachy party because NOBODY was planning one. I had to contact one of his friends to get it going. His Bridesmaid or Best Man lives in another state, so he wasn’t doing anything. Still don’t know what’s going on with that.
I also can’t get in touch with our Pastor. I’ve been playing phone tag with him for 2 weeks. No calls back, always busy. We till have to meet with him 2 more times before the wedding. Um, there’e not a lot of time left buddy. Are we still getting married in your church dude??????
Just found out one of BMs is prego. I’m happy for her but dreading that she will have morning sickness and not be able to make the wedding. That would suck. LOL!
On to of all that, Fiance are arguing over stupid shit. I’m so over this wedding bullcrap. Everyone keeps asking, “are you excited???” Um, no. I just want to go on vacation. So over all this drama and stress and CRAP! End Rant.
Anyone else have similar problems this close? All was well 2 weeks ago, I swear! UGH!