Post # 1
Like the title says tomorrow is my 3 year anniversary and I’m super excited. Honestly I don’t think I’m getting engaged tomorrow. In fact I would be SHOCKED if it happened tomorrow. I know I’m going to have a blast tomorrow to matter what happens, but I can’t help but feel a little disappointed.
We have had “the talk” (see my previous posts). And discussed what I like for a ring, and I know he has the money for it (but whether he wants to spend his stock earning on a ring, is another question). But lately he has been tightening his financial belt quite a bit, sowho knows.
We also have a trip to the states planned next week, so then is a possibility too, but I really don’t think it’ll happen there either!
So bees, I guess what I’m trying to ask is this: How do I push the engagement thoughts out of my head so I can simply enjoy my anniversary and mini vacation??
Post # 3
Not sure how helpful it will be, but you can try pretending you’re already engaged. Imagine he proposed last weekend and treat him on these vacations the way you would if he really had. Seeing how amazing (and generous lol) you are he might get inspired 🙂
Post # 4
Having been through this MANY times, I’d honestly say it’s impossible. I knew there was a 50/50 chance on our last vacation, but five minutes into the trip, the TSA agent asked if any of our luggage had locks on it and SO goes, “NOPE! I don’t own anything valuable enough to lock!!” It was 5:00am and I was crushed, but I was happy that it wouldn’t be a nagging thought for the rest of the trip.
Don’t come right out and ask him, but pay attention to his belongings… if he’s guarded with his phone or his suitcase, it might be possible. If he leaves everything out and unzipped, it might be a good indicator. Either way…. booze always helps!