3 years, I'm past ready, he's not even close

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 46
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Buzzing Beekeeper

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sugarsweetmagnolia :  

This I  am VERY firm with the idea that if I don’t have kids by 30, I don’t want them. ” is a bit odd, you know . Thinking 30 ( 30 ! ffs) is some advanced age  at which your heart and mind becomes set is  – forgive me – demonstrative  of a very young  attitude. As is the general idea that you can make other people want what you want.

 

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

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sugarsweetmagnolia :  That’s an awesome update, and I’m so happy you were able to get some mental peace after talking to him!

To piggy back on what a lot of other Bees have said: don’t worry about all the people barking at you and saying you’re too young.  Yes, your age would be too young for SOME people.  But that doesn’t mean you’re one of those.  You sound very mature, and honestly, if I had it my way I would have been getting married much younger than what I am now.  Just keep weighing out your choices and thoughts carefully, and you’ll be just fine. =)

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