Post # 91
- Wedding: Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception/The Gallery
Oh FFS. This thread is too much.
OP, you and your girlfriend don’t need to not have sex for a year, you need to be more responsible. There are obviously some cultural differences at play here, but there are many reliable, affordable forms of birth control and contraception out there. PLEASE use them.
Also, it would do both you and your girlfriend well to understand more of how women’s fertility works (although you are clearly very engaged in the process already). The number of days does not dictate where in the cycyle a woman is or what is actually occuring. This is basic, but may help. http://www.thedoctorwillseeyounow.com/content/womens_health/art2906.html
Post # 92
Glad it worked out, the force was with you this time. The next time you might not get so lucky. Time to be mature and intelligent and use a reliable method of birth control.
Post # 93
if she is pregnant, do not go to her moms house and don’t let your girlfriend go there either as her mom is apparently abusive. Maybe you could get several trustworthy relatives to go with you two to her house so they can grab mothers arms if she starts to lose it.
I just hope that if your girlfriend is pregnant, that her mom falls in love with the baby though I wouldnt let her babysit alone. Abuse is abuse even if might be normal for a girls parents to feel like punching the boyfriend (all the jokes about shotgun weddings, right) but normal people don’t act upon it. Make sure if she is pregnant that you watch out for her safety.
Post # 94
oh ok just saw your update. Hopefully you are taking my advice to heart!!! Because what you just went through wasnt necessary. Happy for your good news – now go to Planned Parenthood with her now or abstain.
Post # 95
Yes yes yes . People are still “pulling out ” as a form of contraception ? Words fail me .
Post # 96
Hi everyone, I opened up this account again to post a new question, but my new post will probably put in the different section of the board. By the way, thank you to those people who gave me nice messages. Thank you!
Just an update: Last August 2015, about this issue, yes, my ex-girlfriend didn’t get pregnant. She had her period on her morning 33rd day.
Second, we’re getting married next year, May 2017. I proposed to her last June (2016) 🙂
Third, it’s her 31st day (7PM here) and I think she doesn’t have her period again haha! A bit paranoid this time, but not as anxious as the last time I was.
Fourth, her mom gave us the consent to live together in one apartment.