(Closed) 3’s a crowd?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you had a 3way?
    Yes, Male Male Female : (25 votes)
    7 %
    Yes. Female Female Male : (33 votes)
    9 %
    The idea of a Male Male Female 3some gets me excited : (45 votes)
    12 %
    The idea of a Female Female Male 3some Gets me excited : (66 votes)
    18 %
    We actually do indeed swing : (4 votes)
    1 %
    I did this and it ruined my relationship with BF/GF : (4 votes)
    1 %
    The thought of this repulses me : (95 votes)
    26 %
    Other Bracket, doesn't repulse you but not in a rush to go out and do it : (96 votes)
    26 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    485 posts
    Helper bee

    I’ve had a threesome with another girl and a guy (not a BF). I didn’t like it and would not do it again.

    Post # 4
    Member
    3982 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I’m in the “other” bracket. It doesn’t repulse me, but I just don’t have the urge to run out and do it. I don’t think I ever will. I “Just don’t care”.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    It doesn’t repulse me at all – but I still wouldn’t do it. I don’t want to share my man with anyone!

    Post # 6
    Member
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I wouldn’t say I’m replused by the idea, but I will say that this is not an option we would ever seriously consider.

    If it were honestly just about the physical side of things, fine, whatever; but sex is so emotional and such an integral part of how we connect with each other that I would not be willing to bring someone else into our marriage bed. Basically, I’m not willing to take any unnecessary risks with my marriage.

    Post # 7
    Member
    485 posts
    Helper bee

    @ddw: I agree with that, I can’t imagine sharing SO with anyone. He feels the same way so we wouldn’t consider a threesome.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2154 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I could totally get into it if SO wanted to. At this point, however, it’s just not his cup of tea, which is just fine with me!

    Post # 10
    Member
    3587 posts
    Sugar bee

    I did, when I was in my early 20’s , college times,LOL(MMF). I wouldn’t do it in a relationship. Not that free wheeling.

    Post # 11
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    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I checked some of the options (have done F/F/M several times [A++ would do again] and would like to do M/M/F [but not gonna happen – boo]) but also other – you forgot F/F/F which was also excellent.

    FWIW, this is why everyone thinks I am a terrible influence.

    Post # 12
    Member
    853 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    um, all I’ll say is that the fantasy of one is so much better than the reality.

    Post # 13
    Member
    389 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I could never do something like that.  I won’t judge the people who have done or continue to do it, though.  Fiance had a threesome with two girls long before he met, I’m just glad he got it out of his system, haha.  He said he would never want to do something like that with me

    Post # 14
    Member
    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I like the fantasy side of it,but in reality I dont think I ever could or would.

    Post # 15
    Member
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @kimbo89: I agree. That’s basically my answer. We do pretty, erm, not-vanilla stuff lol, but this isn’t one of them. 🙂

    Post # 16
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    2161 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Definitely not something I am interested in, especially at this point in my life.

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