(Closed) 3way

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Alaric2012:  I would never do it in a serious relationship (or anytime for that matter). Too much is at stake.

You need to have a lot of open, honest conversations and neither of you can feel pressured into it.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Yes I have – many moons ago in my wold impetuous youth. Twice, both were spontaneous. Both involved two guys and me. I imagine those who engage in such things find them exciting. I was never quite at ease either time – it was more confusing than fun. Obviously not a big hit with me as I have not been inspired to try so again.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

We’ve talked and thought about it.  Not sure if we will ever go through with it.  Gotta find the right person to try it with.  But it does sound exciting and gets us curious! 😉 lol

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’ve done it multiple times but never in a serious relationship. I think I would kill anyone that touched SO!

Post # 7
Hostess
2556 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I have twice when I was very young… I don’t think I could bring that into a serious relationship though.  Way too many variables.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2017

We did once. It was while we on vacation in Vegas and my best friend and I randomly decided to try it. SO didn’t have sex with my friend, but he did do other things to her and let her and I do things to each other. It was his ultimate fantasy, so I am glad I had the chance to give that to him.

Would I do it again? Nope. It really was a one time thing.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

New here. Learned about this site from my sister. Fun questions and answers around here.

Yes I’ve done it twice. Both times it was with a female and my Boyfriend or Best Friend. It was a blast but it was never planned. It just happened. If there’s good comunication with your partner I think you should try it.

Post # 10
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1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I have with my ex (many times) but would never with my current Fiance.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

We have done a 3way twice with another guy and twice with another girl! Totally spur of the moment and a ton of fun!!! (both the guy and the girl were friends) We would totally do it again with the right people.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

We might do it one day, its not a never for us.

Post # 13
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382 posts
Helper bee

Oh gosh, I would never do it.  No problem if other people enjoy it, but I couldn’t handle it.  I’m far too jealous.  I think I might enjoy having sex with a girl in front of SO, but I wouldn’t be able to handle him having sex with another girl in front of me.  And as for another guy, it would just make me feel weird and SO would definitely not be ok with that.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have, but I am also poly so it isn’t quite as big of a leap. Reagarding how you go about it, it really depends on what you’re looking for. Stranger vs friend, one-time vs recurring, male or female… What many people do is just hit on strangers at bars and then introduce them to your SO. It will be pretty clear what is going on, so they can choose to duck out at that point. If you are willing to be more forward, go to a swingers club. Just don’t be assholes about it: people aren’t sex toys, and your third isn’t there to fulfill your fantasy and then slink off into the night. If that is what you are looking for (which for most couples, it is), then there is another option… hire a sex worker.

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