(Closed) 4 Days until my October 18th Wedding and…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I really don’t think that’s a Bridezilla moment. That is a fully justified “I HATE WHEN PEOPLE ARE SO @#$%ING INCONSIDERATE AND CAN’T DO ANYTHING BY THEMSELVES IN PROPER TIME!” moment.

oh and good grief, beggars can’t be choosers if they don’t have rides.

Post # 4
2963 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

People are idiots. Breathe. For real, take a few deep breaths.

I suggest you or FI delegate someone else in the wedding party to pick up the car-less ones.

Post # 5
1906 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

they are probably contacting your parents so that you don’t have to deal with it 4 days before your wedding!

I had a friend text me on the morning of my wedding asking what he should wear, lol people are so dumb somtimes

Post # 6
911 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - The Down Town Club, Philadelphia

Delegate, delegate, delegate!

And change your outgoing voicemail message to include the link to your wedding website.

Stop answering the phone and just text replies to everyone. 

They will get the hint. Hopefully.


(and I don’t think you are being a bridezilla, AT ALL)

Post # 7
7872 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You write: “So I have to have her around the house and taking her up in our car caravan to the wedding and home in our caravan”

No you don’t! It is *her* responsibility to get to and from the wedding, not yours.

Also, since the groomsman is presumably FI’s friend, why isn’t FI picking him up?

Post # 9
7872 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Firenze:  Ah, I made a gender assumption, sorry!

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