(Closed) 4 Years, 11 months and 324 days but who is counting.

• mrsv2be
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: September 2010

Have you read Mr. Bee’s 3 Step Plan?

Mr. Bee’s Three Step Plan (and Backup Plan!) for getting engaged

Good luck!

• mcnetn3
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: August 2011

I’ve lived with my SO for over a year now and we’ve been together (with 1 year apart in the middle) for over 7 years. I do my best to keep my mind off of going crazy that he hasn’t proposed (despite talks about buying a home, having kids, what our wedding will be like, etc) by staying busy.  I take time to go to the gym and spend time with my family.

• MsMamaBear
• 11 years ago

Well…..we’ve only been together for 1yr and 6months. LOL I stay sane by concentrating on myself and doing things I like. Today I’m going to the day spa. I also scrapbook.

• TinyTina
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: May 2012

We have been together for 5 years, lived together for 3, talked about getting married for 1.5 years and I am not sane… That wasn’t very good advice. But welcome to the bee! 🙂

• edisonsgirl
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: October 2010

What are you waiting for? Why not do the very unconventional thing and ask him? Ok maybe that is too unconventional for most people…including myself.

• DreamingBee
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: November 2015

Do you have any idea why he’s waiting?  Does he know what your timeframe is?

Welcome 🙂

• lezlers
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: April 2011

5 years is an awful long time to be together without having some sort of time frame set.  How old are the two of you?  I’d strongly urge you to have a conversation with him about it.

• mrsa2011
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: May 2011

it will happen when the time is right, trust me, i have been with my fiance for 5 years and we will be engaged for 2 years right before our wedding. its good to be with each other for a while and see how it is living together and all that, i highly recommend a long engagement too unless family is willing to help pay