- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
I needed to just process this and talk it out. So heres the back story, Db and I have been together since Ocotber 2008, so we hit 4 years in October. We moved in together last may and its been awesome, we did the whole moving in together thing and figured each other out and all that comes with being in a serious committed relationship. I love finding things out about him and living with him, ofcourse we fight and we fight hard, but at the end of the day we do come together and communicate (beautifully and easily). So yeah, we’re in a good place with all the good juju.
3 years ago, before I left for collge, I promised my daddy that I will not get married till I was done and I graudate in December this year. Db and I have always talked about getting married and stuff, and all our friends say that we might as well be lol. Db said on many occasions (especially when we go to jewelry store to ‘look’ at erings for fun) that we will not get married until I graduate because he respects the promise I made to my daddy. But I am 23 1/2 years and I am getting the wedding bug haha. But 2 saturdays ago, we walked into zales and we found the PERFECT ring, I cried when I saw it, here the link to my post about it http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-went-to-zales-and-took-pictures-d . Db loved it too and I think thats the one hes gonna get for us.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that I love him for respecting my dad in waiting till I graduate, but I am so anxious just because I have heard chatter from Db’s friends that he is gonna purchase it soon and that he has this elaborate plan all planned out. I am just… (like my user name suggests), a jitterbug.
Anyone been in or is in a similar situation?