Post # 1
57 days and I will be Mrs. Johnny B and I can’t believe it!! I was stressed about losing weight, and I really have only lost a little, but that’s okay. I am healthier and I work at it every day.
I am just feeling a little, well, I don’t know how to put it into words!! Nervous, excited, anxious and honestly, a little sad!
I’m nervous because I want everything to come together well. But I haven’t turned into Bridezilla yet, so I don’t plan on it! I figure whatever happens, happens and it is what it is. The ultimate reason for all of this is to be married to my Love.
I’m excited because, well the same reason we are all here, I’m excited to share my love for my future husband with the world!!
I am anxious because I really hate having my pictures taken!! I know I am WAAAAY prettier in person (j/k but there’s nothing wrong with a little self proclamation!!)- who is that chubby girl that ate my face in these recent photos?!?!?! I know, it doesn’t matter, but when you spend so much money on a photographer, it kind of does!! I don’t know what to do- Chin up! Shoulders back! Hair down to hide the arm chub!!! LOL
And I am sad because all of this planning will create a memorable event, but what in the world am I going to do with all of my time after this is all done?!
Any other Bees feeling this way? Or at least some of it? Just hearing someone is going through the same frame of mind might help ease mine! LOL
Post # 3
I can totally relate-especially about having my picture taken. Fiance decided to upgrade photographers and I am thinking NOOOOOO!!!!! I don’t want someone capturing every single moment in pictures-I need to be aware so I can at least try to present myself in the least flabby/gigantic way.
It doesn’t help that I had to have my fitting done yesterday right next to a young, gorgeous and very thin/toned/tanned girl who looked FABULOUS in her dress!
But hey, congrats to you on your weightloss and healthier ways. I think the roller coaster of emotions at this stage of the game is normal.
You’re not alone!
Post # 5
A friend of mine once told me that no matter who you are every bride always looks absolutely beautiful on their wedding day. I was so pleased about how my wedding photos came out, although there were some were I was making a really odd face. I had all these same feelings your having in the couple months before my wedding, Especially on what am I going to do with my time! It’s been 3 weeks and I’m still adjusting. Our house is full of wedding stuff that still needs to be gone through and theres still a lot of wedding things to get done afterwards. You have a wonderful attitude about remembering what its all about. Truely enjoy this time. It’s over so fast and all feels like a blur. Truthfully I am a little sad that it’s over but I also am soo excited to show off how my vision came together in the end. Very bittersweet.
Best of Luck!
Post # 6
Thanks, Girls!!! I am just starting to stress so I thought I better identify it and nip it in the bud before it gets out of control!!!
@sueanddemetrius: I just figure that I will do all those old “Myspace” poses!!! LOL
@ValerieJene1022: I am so happy to hear that you were worried, too, about your time and now you are still busy!! I just don’t want to feel like a deflated balloon!!
Congrats and you’re friend is right, you look smashing!!