- 3 years ago
Hello! I am new here, so please bare with me.
I have a 6 year old relationship with my boyfriend, we both are hispanic, latin or spanic relationship are a bit different, we usually live with our family before getting married, so my boyfriend (28) and I (26) still live with mom and dad.
But recently, friends and more friends are getting engaged, married and starting a new family, so i am staring to think about that a lol lately, I talked with him one year ago about the future, he said he wanted to wait 2 years, I was okay with that, but is already 2018 and he still thinks 2 years… so when were going to start the 2 years countdown?
Yesterday I cracked, and brought again the topic, we were arguing, and he said in a very bad way ´´I AM NOT READY TO MARRY, ARE YOU READY TO MARRY?´´ I sinked, my heart skipped, I felt really bad like as if I am never getting married with this guy….
The most common thing for a family with a men with 28 years old should be ´´you need to get married” but no his family doesnt talk about that, even a friend of the family when the topic was in the air said ´´in this house nobody is in wedding time (they are 4 brother, 2 with wedding age), I love his family and they love me too, but I am feeling terrible because my boyfriend let this lady to say that, and I am the bad one for notice her unwanted comment.
What you think about my situation, I love him, but is natural to think am I wasting my time? am I get married old? I want to have my kids before 30, he loves me and caring and kind, but this waiting is getting in my nerves, I dont want to talk anymore about this with him..