Post # 1
till no ring on my finger…
Most frustrating thing of my life. He keeps it in his dresser draw which is next to my head when i sleep every night.
I told him he has till the end of September to give it to me. Is that wrong?? Should I not have put the pressure on him?? BE HONEST PLEASE!!
Its not fair for me to have a $10,000 ring sitting there for 8 months.
I have a lot of health issues so I blame myself sometimes, I feel like he doesn’t want to become “responsible” for me. But he knew about my health when he met me.When I ask him if that has anything to do with it he says absolutely not, and he is always there to take care of me. Most caring person I have ever me.
So when I asked him what it was he says hes scared to make that big of a commitment.
I NEED ALL THE OPINIONS I CAN GET PLEASE!
Post # 3
That’s really frustrating! I would go crazy if I were you! When was the last time you talked to him about the pending engagement?
Post # 4
We just talked about it a few moments ago thats why I had vent!
Im sorry but him telling me hes scared is the last thing I want to hear… why would you spend THAT much money on a ring if you were uncertain.
He says he knows he wants to be with me forever but it scared of that commitment…hes always had commitment issues. But this commitment problem makes me feel like crap cause I feel like Im doing something wrong and the more health issues I have the more I feel like he doesnt want to commit cause i think hes scared hell have to take care of me 100% one day. He told me he that he’d change my diapers thats how much he lovees me haha grosss i know. But I tell him all the time I understand I am alot to handle and I would rather have him leave now then ME having to walk away at my Sept deadline
Post # 5
Ugh. That would make me crazy too! Guys and there plans or commitment issues suck!
I’d trust him with the it’s not you thing and that he has commitment issues. Like you said, hes known about your health problems and if he wanted to leave i’m sure he would of a long time ago. Your lucky that you have such a loving guy. I’m sure he has a plan for you!
Post # 6
Well I had a big talk with him and it is my heath issues holding him back. He didnt want to tell me that cauas already knows how upset I get I cause I constantly feel like a burden oN my family and him.but He assured me he’s not going anywhere. This just gives memotivation to conquer my illness. Ans he promised not to leave my side.
Post # 7
My husband bought my diamond about 10 months before I got the ring. He bought the diamond, freaked the f out and let it sit there for months, then finally got around to having a ring made, which took another few months. Once he got the ring it didn’t take him long to propose and we married 7 months later.
So what I’m saying is – there will be one moment when he gets over it. Until then, you have the right idea – take care of yourself.