- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
With just over 70 days until our wedding we’re dealing with the following:
Fiance lost his job. His company shut down very suddenly. He’s applying like crazy, but there aren’t many positions in his field and he isn’t qualified for much outside of it. Plus all the other people who worked with him are also now all looking in the same field.
Our dog has been really ill the last day or so and we’re not sure what’s up. Last night I got about 90 minutes of sleep due to puppy issues. He’s only 5 months old and know idea what the deal is.
The puppy has caused some other family drama (bit some people) and we’ve been battling what to do with him since we love him, but life is getting hard to live with him.
My mother is full of typical wedding drama and daily the list of things she originally offered to pay for is dwindling, with contracts and things in place, we’re now left with trying to figure out how to pay for it all.
Fiance drove over two hours round trip yesterday and today for physicals and paperwork for an unpaid position that leads to a paid position in his field of work. Would be good until he finds something else…
He stopped at the post office today and while I was excited to hear our stamps for the invites came in, so did a letter from the state denying his professional certification renewal because it had been expired for 4 freaking days.
He now needs to take a 6month course and he’s not eligible for the job he’s been doing all the paperwork for anymore.
I’m mad at Fiance only because I was unaware he was expired when he did all the crap to renew it earlier this month.
I’m mad at the world because it seems a giant shit cloud has taken residence over our house.
I am, however, thankful for Weddingbee and helpful people who understand the moment when you’ve reached breaking point… and that planning a wedding, no matter how casual or even if you’re a professional wedding planner, adds stress to your days anyway.
I know it will all work out, it will all be fine… but man – getting there is gettin’ kinda sucky!!!!