Post # 1
Eeeekkk 9 days to go & dont feel ready
Not sure why WBC says 8 but I have 9 days left… and I starting to feel super stressed! Am I the only bride that doesnt feel like she has everything ready for her wedding? I still feel like I have a ton to do and figure out!
I still dont have candy for my candy buffet.
I still dont have a timeline!
I have no seating chart! ( i am thinking of skipping it)
I have no one to video!
And I have yet to make my photographer a must have photo list
I still havent written my vows!
I still havent packed for my honeymoon!
I still havent gotten down the steps to our first dance!
1 of my bridesmaids still doesnt have a dress!
2 of my groomsmen still have nothing to wear!
And i just checked the weather and my it is called to be hot high if 91 for our outdoor wedding with a 60% chance of rain! Now i have a rain plan for my ceremony but I am not happy with it!
If it rains we will have to get married in the barn on a cement floor but!!! What about my shepards hooks lineing my aisles? What about my pond and tree backdrop 🙁 What about my beautiful outdoor pictures 🙁
ANd to top if off i have been super tired I feel exhausted apparently i been so short and grumpy with my fiance he told me I needed to find that sweet woman he wanted to marry! i have been having to pull 6 9 hour shifts a week and today was my last day off till the day before my wedding… I just feel super stressed.
Post # 3
Don’t worry about it! We didn’t have much of a timeline (but you do need to know when you will take the pictures and the earliest you can be at the ceremony site). We didn’t have a seating chart and nothing bad happened! We also didn’t have a must have photo list.
Just relax and try to enjoy it, if some things don’t get done, they weren’t important to you.
Post # 4
Okay, you have your “To do” list right in front of you. Prioritize what you have to get done to what you would like to get done. Then divide up the chores by the nine days you have left and enlist anyone and everyone who is willing to help you! Don’t be afraid to ask. Most people love to help, especially for weddings! You can’t control the weather, but no matter what, you WILL get married and it WILL be a great day!
Post # 5
Hang in there! You’re in the home stretch.
I’m getting married the day before you and if some things don’t get done, they don’t get done. I think this stressed feeling is pretty normal.
Post # 6
I’m freaking out too. You are not the only one. I still have favors, programs, place cards, table numbers, napkin folding, airbrush tan, hotel booking for the night of, finding an outfit for the afterparty, cleaning house for the Rehearsal Dinner, and making a vegetarian meal for Future Mother-In-Law for the Rehearsal Dinner, give deposits to everyone, finish playlist and must have photo list, and start our slideshow photo presentation.
It will all come together. Get as much help as you can. And don’t worry, Fiance will love you no matter what! It’s the best test for future stressors.