(Closed) 90ish days away and i want to quit (HELP)

posted 5 years ago in South Asian
Post # 2
7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

With good food and an open bar people will enjoy themselves, even if they may not stay as late as they might at a Saturday wedding. How do you feel about the music you will have? Add good music to good food and drink and a great deal can go wrong and all will still be well.

Relax and focus on one thing at a time. I hope your move goes well and you wake up happy with your Fiance tomorrow morning!

Post # 3
272 posts
Helper bee

I agree with beethree. Good food + an open bar = a fun time. But if you feel the wedding doesn’t reflect you two as a couple, try to talk to your parents about it. Maybe there are some things you can change or add that will make it feel like you. Good luck and try not to stress about this. You will have a great time!

Post # 5
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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icant:  How do they flip the room? I don’t think it’ll take  a way. So much about a wedding is about the people and the atmosphere and I feel like the Ah-ha moment is tied to that. A good DJ can make or break a party, so at least you have that. And I know, personally, for a really good friend I am staying at a Sunday wedding at least until I start to feel sleepy (well past 11).

Post # 6
259 posts
Helper bee

ive been to alot of weddings where the ceremony was in the recpetion room!!! its perfectly normal and those weddings were beautiful!

Post # 7
329 posts
Helper bee

My friend got married in the exact same room as her reception. The room wasn’t flipped. I wasn’t there to see it (I had two receptions to go to that day so I had to split my time between the two), but from the pictures I’ve seen and from what people said, it was totally fine. 

Maybe it’ll be an added expense, but have you considered doing a small pre-party before the wedding? We’re not having a rehearsal dinner, but we’re having a nice afternoon get-together the day before the wedding. We’ll have food, the soccer game will be on, and it’s a nice way for people to get to know one another. I’m suggesting this because then you can add something of yourself back in without having to argue about date changes and such, especially so late into the planning stage. 

But yeah, good food, good bar, and good music? It’ll be a good party. 😀

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