(Closed) A-N-X-I-E-T-Y

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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411 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Don’t worry, I’m sure it will all be okay. Just take some time to relax every now and then 🙂 Good luck on your job interview tomorrow!

Post # 4
Member
356 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

awww… just take a deep breath and everything will fall in place! im not really in the same boat as you are, but the wedding is 24 days away and we have just few little things that we need to take care of, but i have to do them bc Fiance is in law school and he is getting ready for his finals..so basically i cant even talk to him about wedding stuff cause he will flip on me!LOL

4 months is still an efficient time, so just write down on paper what you need to do and all your ideas and keep track of it..! a little over 3 weeks away and i didnt get my jewelry yet and we dont have our first dance song! ahaha

Post # 5
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Good luck with the interview!  Near the end of the planning process, I was so over it all and just wanted it to be done with.  Thankfully I didn’t have a lot of DIY to do.

Post # 6
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829 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I feel you! I am super anxious too! Well good luck on your interview!

Post # 7
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134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Good Luck Tomorrow.  My advice is to get started on your DIY projects sooner rather than later.  I am DIYing soooo much stuff for my wedding which is 3 months away.  I started on projects back in December so that I can do a little at a time and not get overwhelmed.  At this point I almost have everything done.

I have crazy anxiety and what helped me was starting a check list of all the projects that you have going.  I usually feel my anxiety decrease each time I cross something off.

Post # 9
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449 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I can’t imagine doing all that at once. No wonder you’re stressed! I have made a choice to keep my wedding as simple as possible, and in my case that means no DIY. My advice to you would be to let go of some of it, don’t try to be perfect, and just focus on enjoying the process. The wedding is only one day, the process is months. And prioritize: make a list of everything, and put it in order of importance. Pare down to what is really a necessity and then scrutinize what you want to add in.  Stay focused, and write everything down so your brain can let go of it.

Post # 11
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449 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Usually the shaking happens to me when I’ve had too much caffiene and/or not enough food. When you’re under a lot of stress it’s a good idea to snack often and get plenty of protein. Usually a yogurt or some cottage cheese helps settle me down.

Post # 12
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190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Try some guided meditation. You can go on ITunes and they have a bunch of free meditation podcasts. I sometimes just take 5 minutes or so and listen to one at my desk at work. It really helps!

 

Post # 13
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972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Good luck on the interview and keep in mind this only happens once in your lifetime so embrace it!

Post # 16
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967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hi MissPumpkin! I read this at work earlier today and couldn’t comment, but I am in the same boat. I am three months out and am really getting nervous – we’re in the final stages!!! When I get real stressed out about it I try and remember that it’s ONE day, and sure, not everything is going to be perfect. But at the end of the day, I’ll have amazing memories, a great new hubby, and a very strong feeling of love and gratitude for my family and friends. All the other stuff inbetween is just STUFF. Know how you’re feeling is totally normal though! PM Me if you ever wanna talk, I am the queen of anxiety so I’d be a good pal for you right now, hehe! Feel better soon!

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