(Closed) Boutonnière

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yes U should It would make him feel a part of the wedding not to mention it will make him stand out if he doesn’t. they are very easy to make. and inexpensive too.

Post # 4
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I would give them all boutonnieres (I had given them to all immediate family)

Post # 5
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I would…

Basically you have 3 Men to deal with … and if it was a traditional set up in regards to roles…

Groom – Best Man – and Father of the Bride… these guys would all wear Bouts… so ya I think it only makes sense to do it

Besides, it will make them all special IMO… afterall they all “your go-to guys” on your Big Day… right?

Hope this helps,


Post # 6
747 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would definately give them all boutonnieres. Plus it will look nice for pictures.Laughing

Post # 7
1846 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d definitely give him one for sure.

With a wedding of that size, I would assume everyone is very close to, so I might consider giving everyone a bout/corsage. (just an idea)

Post # 8
495 posts
Helper bee

Yes, give all 3 men boutonnieres.

Post # 10
4495 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yes, definitely. It’ll look nice and I feel like you should do it anyway just to be courteous.

Post # 11
7649 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Anyone participating in the wedding should get one, in my opinion. I think your brother in law would really appreciate having one 🙂

Any flower would go nicely.


Post # 12
2685 posts
Sugar bee

I consider a witness part of the wedding party, so I’d give them all boutonnieres.  Maybe your groom should have a bout with peonies to match your bouquet, then the others could have calla lily bouts.

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