(Closed) Breakdown

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ah hun… GIANT ((((( HUGS )))))

This is tough, and you are right, it probably won’t be the first time in your life that this happens to you… and even during your Wedding Planning.

I don’t really don’t know what to say…

But want you to know there are definitely fellow Bees you can talk to when you find the need (24/7×365)… especially in those times when you feel there is no one in the 3D World who will understand or have the time…

Bees will

 

Post # 4
Member
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am sorry sweetie but this is now I see it.  He could have look for you too. I know my dad and he never really did much for us.  I really wish I would have had my kids walk me down the ilse but I let him do it but my mom also walked me down the isle. My mom walked my sister’s down the isle as well. She earned it, she was the one there for us when he wasnt.

I see my little girl now being raised by my Darling Husband who is not her father and if you ask me, he is the one that deserves to someone day walk her down the isle because her dad has made no real attempt to be in her life. 

Post # 5
Member
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@brush1027:  I get it. My mom divorced my dad when I was little (3?), and I got to visit him, but not often. We’re from Ukraine, and when I was 10, mom and I left to come here. I’d always wanted to go back to visit, and I miss my dad and my family dearly. He died suddenly from a stroke 4 days before my last birthday. I think I can get pretty close to feeling what you feel. I’ve had all those thoughts too. And it’s terrible. *hugs* 

Post # 7
Member
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@brush1027:  That is good that you found someone to walk you down the isle and I am sorry you are feeling so sad. I hope you cheer up soon and have a beautiful wedding. 🙂 

Post # 10
Member
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I can sort of feel your pain of not having that loved one by your side on your wedding day. I had two people that meant a lot to me that were not there. My parents split when I was 3 and my dad has been in and out my life all these yrs. I actually got to visit him in march and introduced him to my now husband and invited him to my wedding. Well he never showed up so mymom walked me down the aisle. The other person that wasnt there was my only sister who died 2 yrs ago and it was my dream to always have her be my Maid/Matron of Honor. I actually broke down a few weeks into the wedding when i realized she wouldnt be there in person but i felt she would be there in spirit. I know its hard but dont let it completely bring you down. Remember you still have your mother there and all the bees here for you.

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