(Closed) Bridesmaid-less

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am really sorry that you’re having such a crummy time with your ex-bridesmaids. I really think that you should just try to enjoy your wedding the most you can and be happy that your sister is the one who is going to be there. In the end of it all, this is a day for you and your Fiance to celebrate your love for each other. Try to focus on that.

Post # 5
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Tole: I know it feels like crap. I had 2 really good best”friends” since highschool and as of last year we stopped talking because of a few reasons. And now that I am planning my wedding I kind of resent them for not being here for me but I guess you grow up and things change. Remember its all for the best and this day should be happy and about your love for each other!

Post # 6
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Don’t be one of those girls. Call up the one who was important to you after her wedding is over and the stress on her is gone and tell her exactly what you wrote here to all of us

“It meant the world to me to be able to look back and see at least one girl who had been through it all with me (the one who’s wedding is in 3 weeks.)”

If it’s that important to you suck it up and don’t be cady.

Post # 7
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1032 posts
Bumble bee

If you don’t want to let them go as friends you don’t have to, just make an effort and I am sure that whatever rift is there will be patched up eventually. What’s meant to be will be and if you are really good friends I am sure you will learn to forgive eachother.

When it comes to your wedding, its about you and your Fiance, so it doesn’t really matter if you have someone “to look back to” when you say “I do”, just look straight forward at the man you love! That is a beautiful blessing to have in your life and that’s what you are there celebrating! 🙂 It may be hard thinking about not having bridesmaids, but there is SO much more to be happy about. 

Post # 9
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2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That’s too bad. I hope you do work it out with her, since her presence means so much to you.

But in the meantime, why DON’T you ask your friend from work? Even if you’re not best best best friends, the planning progress will almost certainly bring you closer together. And then whether or not you make up with your other Bridesmaid or Best Man, you’ll have a sister and at least one friend there to support you and make you smile.

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