(Closed) Competition

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Honestly some people just get jealous and deal with it the only way they know how!

Does it really matter that she got engaged before you? NO, you are with the man of your dreams and you are going to spend the rest of your life with him.

Does it really matter if she gets married before you? NO, you are going to have fun planning the wedding of your dreams for the time when you want to have it and it will be PERFECT!

She will regret doing things in such haste instead of on her own timeline. Do things your way on your timeline and don’t let her bring you down!

Post # 4
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

she’s clearly insecure, so bask in your security and rise above it.

Post # 5
350 posts
Helper bee

Maybe the reason she is rushing to get married is because she randomly got pregnant?  And yes, she might be jealous, but it sounds like she is having a shotgun wedding so why wouldn’t she be.  I highly doubt she got pregnant just to spite you.

Post # 6
14183 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Man i’d feel bad for her.

Post # 7
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

This definitely sounds like she’s trying to beat you to the punch with everything. I agree with FMM – hold your head high, take your time and have the wedding of your dreams…b/c you’re getting married to the man of your dreams! She’s rushing into things, and I have a feeling she’s going to regret this later. 10 years down the line, when you’re still blissfully happy, and she’s miserable, she’ll find out that it wasn’t worth trying to compete!

Post # 8
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think you should distance yourself from her, especially if she’s been doing this your whole life and it’s obviously bringing you down.

Maybe don’t give her any info on your wedding, vendors etc. That way she won’t know anything that you are doing so she won’t be able to try competing with you.

Post # 9
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I agree with the PP – definitely don’t divulge any details or information about your wedding planning to her.

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