- chaikac
- 10 years ago
- Wedding: May 2009
So I’m 9 months out before the wedding and I’ve made STD postcards. I was hesitant about handing them out at work, since I was afraid that people might leave them lying around and then other people that didn’t get them would see them. Especially since there are some coworkers that are still on the ‘maybe’ list.
Anyway, I gave out one card to my closest friend at work. And within a day, someone saw it and has already approached me with, "I saw your Save the Date!!!". And well, this is one person that I know I’m not inviting to the wedding. She is a nice person, but she is very nosy and very judgemental, and I really don’t work directly with her. Everytime I see her she asks me about my wedding plans.
I really think she is fishing for an invite. I know she’ll get the point when she doesn’t get an invite. But how do I deal with her meanwhile? So far, I’ve either changed the subject quickly or just answered her question.