(Closed) Crying

posted 13 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2022

I am so so sorry for your loss and I can not begin to imagine what you’re going through. Please know that we’re all hear to listen if you want to let it out. {{{{{}}}}

Post # 33
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232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I really cannot imagine the pain you are going through, and my thoughts and prayers go out to you.  I’m sure your brother would want you to have the wedding. And having the wedding may actually help, although it hurts to think about right now. 

The whole in your heart may never be filled but as you know it does get a little better, a little easier to cope with.  Continue to talk with people, family, friends, and us! I know that will help.  I’m so soo sorry. 

Post # 34
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278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I know the pain is unbearable right now and you can’t really think about the future. All you want is the world to stop and acknowledge that this person who meant so much in your life is gone. Don’t make any big decisions about your wedding or anything else in your life right now. Please allow yourself time to grieve. My prayers are with you and your family.

Post # 35
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171 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

rol769-  I am so sorry and I will pray for you and your family.  My Fiance younger brother who was 20 passed away all of a sudden a year ago so if you need someone to talk to or to help in any way please let us know.  Just take it one day at a time because that will be all that your mind, body and soul can handle.  Also after time I would recommend getting in to a support group of people that have lost their brothers and sisters.  We go weekly and no it doesn’t take the pain away but the people around you know exactly how it feels and they help us to cope with it in different ways.

God Bless

Post # 36
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1563 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss.

Post # 37
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3952 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Many hugs and my prayers go out to you and your family at this time.

Post # 39
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22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Post # 40
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943 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

I am so sorry for your loss 🙁 I cannot imagine being in your shoes, and I can only offer my thoughts for you and your family.

Post # 41
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4 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I am so sorry for your loss. HUGS

Post # 42
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75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am terribly sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))

Post # 43
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I am so sorry for your loss.  Please know we are all here for you.  Just take your time. 

Post # 44
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840 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I just wanted to keep the sympathy coming, and let you know how sorry I am that this has happened to you … losing your parents and a brother, too awful to imagine. Do you have any sisters or other brothers? Pray God I hope so. Deepest regrets. -L

Post # 45
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1947 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I am so sorry for your loss!  My brother lost his battle with depression in May 2007, a few months before I got engaged.  My Fiance had planned to ask him to be a groomsmen, and I wanted him to be our soloist.  I know it’s not the same as your circumstance, but I understand, in a small way, what you are going through.  My dog and my grandmother died, too, in June and July respectively.  My fiance almost didn’t propse (in August, our anniversary) because he thought it might be a bad time to do so, but I am so glad he did, because it really helped me (and my family as well), to have something HAPPY to look forward to.  It’s what worked for me to help get over the grief.  What works for you might be totally different.  There is nothing wrong with postponing your wedding, and there is nothing wrong with NOT postponing it either.  That is for you and your fiance to decide.

When you DO get married, there are many wonderful ways to honor your brother’s memory.  We had a memorial candle made, (I found a lady who makes beautiful personalized ones on eBay).  I wanted to play a recording of a song my brother sang, but ultimately decided that that would be too hard for me, so we just stuck with the memorial candle.  It’s not the same as him walking you down the aisle, but whatever you do will be a nice reminder that he is loved and not forgotten on your big day.

I am so sorry this has happened.  I wish I could give you a real hug, but e-hugs will have to do, and you certainly have them!

Post # 46
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I just wanted to add my own condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and know how many thoughts and prayers are being sent your way. 

{{{HUGS}}} 

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