(Closed) Dissapointments

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Are either of you on your parents insurance?  Getting married will make you lose your insurance that way.  I don’t know anything about unemployment, but will he lose it if you get married?  Where will the two of you live after getting married if you don’t really have much income?

Post # 4
Member
925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I know every guy and girl wants the inlaws approval, but I think how you want to get married is really up to you and your Fiance.  If this is something you guys really want to do, then go for it.  If you think it’s something you could possibly regret later, think about it a little more.  I don’t think parents should be the ultimate decision on how you 2 decide to start your lives together.  It’s your marriage, not theirs.  Hope it works out!

Post # 7
Member
1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I can kind of relate to where youre coming from. I’m sure that they are hurt you didn’t have a wedding, or invite them. But you’re right, it’s just a piece of paper, especially since you were practically married before

Post # 8
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Okay, I’m glad that you aren’t living with his parents and would be kicked out if you get married.  I say you should go for it if you really want to elope.  It isn’t going to hurt anything really.  I hope you two can find jobs, it’s so tough right now.

Post # 11
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Haha good idea about the thick paper.  I am trying to find a job too, luckily my husband works for the government so he very likely won’t be fired.  And that’s not nice of them to tell you to just not come over because of the cats!

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