(Closed) Exes

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It’s nice feeling like an ex has ‘downgraded’ (especially if it was a messy break up)

That sounds so horrible! But yes, I have definitely felt this way too!

Post # 4
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1025 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I remember reading some psych study that women were more upset if there ex was dating someone that they felt was less attractive than them, because they worried that it meant he chose what he thought was prettier, and made the women doubt themselves. 

My ex dated someone after me, and I was just happy he was dating someone. (And not in a “oh good for him” way, but in like a “good maybe he’ll move on now” way).

Post # 5
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7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Me too. It probably is terrible, but it makes me giggle. It also makes me giggle that Darling Husband is much more attractive than the ex in question.

Post # 6
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

im horrible, i once saw my ex bf’swife having a meltdown at her kids in a carpark and then he and she started a screaming match and i got to drive off in my brand new company car/audi – felt sorry for the kids though but 3 kids in 3yrs will drive you crazy i sure

Post # 7
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391 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ohoho don’t feel bad. I downloaded his ex’s photos from her Facebook profile and showed it to people just to get their confused reaction of “He doubted you for that?” Not me at my best, I admit. But nice to know I’m not the only one!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Pupperoni:  Yep!  My ex-husband’s girlfriend/fiance’ is not a pretty girl and it makes me happy.  He told me himself she wasn’t very pretty and I thought he must be exagerating to spare my feelings.  Then I saw her picture and he wasn’t.  At all. 

Post # 9
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566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I may be a terrible person for admitting this, but i feel the same way!  lol

Post # 10
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4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

@jedeve: OMG! I once was in this really bad relationship where my ex was commenting on how cute this other girl was… and she was FUGLY! It was so weird to me, and I had to really ask myself what I was doing in such an unsatisfying relationship with a guy who was checking out someone I felt was a lot less attractive than me. ๐Ÿ˜‰ I feel bad admitting it, but… not really. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Of course, if he were already my ex at the time, I think I would have been happy about it, because I’d feel like I was out of his league and he’d never do that well again. (Sorry… I am evil!)

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

One of my exes is now married to a girl with a smoking hot body but questionable face. All of the far away pictures of her look fantastic, but up close…

What really amuses me though is that he used to be in fantastic shape (former ballroom dancer) but now that he’s sinking into married life, he looks like he’s letting himself go. He must have gained about 40 pounds. Never thought I’d see him with a pot belly!

We broke up over a decade ago, and I got over it in less than a month, but he did dump me 5 days before graduation, so I’m allowed to gloat a bit, right? Right?

Post # 12
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1270 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@linguo42: ooohhh a butter face. that’s rough. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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1032 posts
Bumble bee

My exFI from a year and a half ago must have gained about 40 pounds (at 5’7″) from facebook pictures, he is finally dating someone new who happens to look much older and less attractive than me… and I hate to say it, but I am kinda happy he got fat and is with a less attractive girl… I am so evil.

In the mean time I am with the most handsome, intelligent, sweet, and sexy man I have ever been with, oh and we’re getting married in March… A BILLION times happier than I’ve ever been!

Sorry I had to gloat ๐Ÿ™‚ it was a bad ending with the ex.

Post # 14
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223 posts
Helper bee

@Pupperoni:hahahaha omg me tooo!!!  my ex is dating a soooo gross girl!  i know it’s juvenile but it makes me laugh.  also, if he gets engaged before me, i might die.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Yerp. Guilty as charged- but I also like showing off my Fiance, who I think is more attractive than all the other guys I’ve dated- so it’s like they traded down and I traded up- double awesome!

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