(Closed) Flakiness

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

I think the most aggrivating are the people who CHANGE their plans after they supposedly made plans with you.  Like a trip to Jamaica.  Seriously?  Makes you want to kick a puppy.

Post # 4
2434 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I think it’s obnixious.  It drove me crazy while planning my wedding (and in everyday life).  People don’t seem to have the common decency to keep true to their word.  We have people either change their minds and bail or not respond at all to all of our wedding activities- shower, bach parties, rehearsal dinner, wedding, brunch.  EVERY SINGLE EVENT had multiple people bail/flake.  Most gave no reason at all!

It’s incredibly rude and it’s really hard to be polite when it happens.

I feel your pain!

Post # 6
613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

yeah…this is probably not the best way to handle it, but I have seriously re-evaluated my relationships with people.  If I spent $1500 to be in your wedding, flew in for your shower, planned your Bridal Party and paid for your fare there, the least you can do is show up to something you RSVPd to.  Seriously.  Basically, people are selfish.  I realize that and I understand that I cant do anything about it…but it does change my perception of you…

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