(Closed) Heartsick

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would you consider lending something important to you to someone you think you could trust?
    Heck no!; If it's important it's not leaving my possession. : (15 votes)
    41 %
    Yes, but I would have to expect that it may not return. : (15 votes)
    41 %
    Yes, and I have been betrayed by it. : (7 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    46402 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    That’s terrible! If you know where she used to work, can you phone the employer and find out of she still works there? Most employers won’t give a direct yes or no, but if they agree to forward a message to her, you will know the answer is yes. I would then haunt that workplace or have someone else do it and speak to her directly.

    Ever the optomist, I wonder of she lost your contact information ?(I am such a Pollyanna sometimes).

    Post # 4
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    10367 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    That’s awful, but in the end, it’s just a veil. You’ve got so many other things to pass down to your daughter – wisdom, support, love, other wedding items. She may not even want to wear your veil – I know my mom’s was horribly out of fashion and I didn’t want to wear it. So maybe it’ll save her from having to awkwardly decline your offer in the future?

    Post # 7
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    46402 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Peach_Cobbler:  Have you tried doing an online search for her name?

    Post # 9
    Member
    46402 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Peach_Cobbler:  What about contacting someone else who knew her? Would they be able to give you more information?

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    This is very sad but I would try to count it as a lesson learned and move on.

    Post # 11
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    1622 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Oh that is so sad!  I would be so disappointed if this happened to me.  My guess is she probably lost the veil and didn’t have the nerve to tell you knowing how important it was to you. 

    Post # 13
    Member
    1399 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I once lent rosary beads that my dead father gave me… they were lost 🙁

    Post # 15
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    1399 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @Peach_Cobbler:  People suck! I feel like your veil is a similar situation… something you lent out expecting, and asking for, back, and you were betrayed. Maybe this girl lost your veil and doesn’t wanna own up to it :-

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