(Closed) Jitters

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
875 posts
Busy bee

Dear VicarsWifeToBee… 

I’ve read a few of your posts along your journey, and you sound like an interesting chick.  I’m finding myself thinking that the only way that your marriage is going to be fully successful is for you to meet and fall in love with Mr. Vicar’s best friend….the BIG GUY… The Creator, The Alpha and Omega, the one that he probably talks about every Sunday…yes I do mean GOD.  I’m sitting in my livingroom, and asking HIM to show you why it is that you love that wonderful VICAR.  I do believe in the power of prayer, and I’m praying that God will give you peace of mind, and will help you to see that God loves you and will be with you along the way!  God bless!

Post # 5
Member
875 posts
Busy bee

I’m glad you have had the opportunity to to pray before… that sounds like a scary day!  I hope that God gave you comfort about that experience…  I know that marriage and motherhood are two giant leaps, but I know that God is going to be with you.  He created you to fall in love with Mr. Vicar, and He knows the love that’s in your heart!  I only know you from a name on the bee pages, but tonight I feel like God wanted me to see your name on the post and to look at what was happening to you!  God does love you… You can trust him with your hopes, joys, and fears.  I’ll keep you in my prayers this week.  Don’t be afraid to trust God with your life.  I know that sounds really weird coming from a stranger on the web, but I know the God your beloved Vicar serves, and I have been amazed in the way that HE has worked in my life!  Don’t be afraid… just pray and the One who hears all the prayers in the universe will hear your cry and be with you. 

Post # 7
Member
1765 posts
Buzzing bee

@vicarswifeintraining:

I think that you are scared because you care, and you truly love the man that you about to marry.  If you didn’t care and love sooo deeply, you would probably not feel this way.  I’ve been married to my wonderful husband for nearly 30 years, and there are still times that I feel that maybe I’m not good enough for him. But God has kept us together all these years. And as far as being a mother-I got pregnant just 4 months after we got married, and was so scared, I told him I wanted puppies instead-I mean-after all, I know how to take care of puppies!  With babies, you don’t get any instructions attached, but you do your best. You can never do better than your best.  Some days you can do better than others, other days your best at that time is not very good, but forgive yourself when you are at the end of that rope and hold on. Do what you think is most important for your children, say prayers for your family, and know that you can’t be perfect. As your children grow, pick the important battles, teach them how to love others by example and the values that you and your husband think are most important, and remember that you are only human.  🙂

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