(Closed) Lights

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: When you're getting it on do you turn the lights off or keep them on (the majority of the time?
    on : (71 votes)
    44 %
    off : (91 votes)
    56 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Only because we live together and if the lights were on and our son ever was to walk in we would be in trouble!! ha ha. so the lights off!!

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    i like it better with the lights off, because personally (i know you guys may all think i am weird) i think it’s gross that i can see my fat when the lights are on. but, we usually end up doing it in the middle of the day when it’s bright out, or he turns the lights on. he’s a big fan of the lights on.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I have a theory about this.

    I think when we’re naked, all we think about is our flab & cellulite, real or imagined.

    I think when men are having sex with us, or about to, all they think about is:

    I’M HAVING SEX!!! YAY ME!

    Post # 7
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    319 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    lol, lights off for us. I know Fiance is a little self-conscious also.

    Post # 8
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    988 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I leave them on.. I love my husband and feel comfortable in my skin. 

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee

    I think it’s mostly on. Just depends. It’s not so much that I’m all that comfortable in my own skin, but sex is just a pretty good distraction. When we aren’t having sex I usually cover myself up.

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    He knows what I look like! No need to turn the lights off πŸ™‚

    Post # 12
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @sassy411: Haha! I think your theory is probably right πŸ™‚

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Bedside lamp on. Best of both worlds. 

    Post # 14
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    117 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    On. soft lights though!

    Those who prefer darkness, what do you do during the daytime if you’re having sex?

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I prefer the lights off, not because of my thoughts on my body, but I just find it more romantic or sexier in the dark. It’s not pitch-dark, so we can still see each other’s face/body up close.

    @Beccka: Most of the time it’s at night for us, but when it is during the day, I think he is happier, since he likes it better with the lights on. lol

    Post # 16
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Beccka: I think it was to difficult to vote because it was so cut & dry.  Soft lights, candles are perfect.

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