(Closed) Locks

• Hyperventilate
• 7 years ago

• Wedding: December 2012

• Hyperventilate
• 7 years ago

• Wedding: December 2012

If my husband wanted to know any of my locks for “just in case” I’d be incredibly suspicious. I have nothing to hide, but if he suddenly decided that he needed that code, I’d be less than willing to give it to him.

• Hyperventilate
• 7 years ago

• Wedding: December 2012

I don’t use his phone. The only exception was when we were driving to Oklahoma and he asked me to look up a hotel. His phone was locked. I asked why he locked it, and he gave me a reasonable answer (He lock it for work.)

Good enough for me. I trust him to not cheat on me, and this was well over a year ago and I highly doubt he’s cheating on me now. I have no need to use his phone — Mine works perfectly well and I charge it every night. If I need to use his phone, I will ask.

• Hyperventilate
• 7 years ago

• Wedding: December 2012

If this is what you want to do, then do it. But if I were in your SO’s position, I’d be suspicious of a “Just in case!”

• CelticBeachBride
• 7 years ago

• Wedding: September 2014

Now, if you truly do just need his doctor’s phone numbers, that’s a separate issue with a very simple solution: ask for those emergency numbers, and make a list of them (along with your emergency numbers) and place them somewhere you both can find them. My mother always kept them posted on the inside of the kitchen cabinets nearest to the phone–so that’s what we do. I agree that you should have those written somewhere else anyway, just in case of emergency.

However, that’s still not a reason to need to look at his phone on a regular basis. Sorry. If I were your man, and you asked me that, I’d be totally concerned WHY you were asking it.