- 7 years ago
- Wedding: April 2011
I’m having a bit of a conundrum about how to honor our loved ones at the ceremony without being too depressing about the whole bit.
We are not having traditional programs – I stole the “Window to the Wedding” idea that was on here but my window doesn’t have enough room to note the 5 deceased relatives we have.
I was originally going to place items (instead of flowers) that were significant to that person on the chair they would have sat at at the ceremony but FH’s family hasn’t been too helpful with coming up with hobbies or interests of the deceased so that’s out.
I don’t hate the idea of a candle but the ceremony is outside and what do you do if it’s windy? We also already have three readings during the ceremony so I don’t want to bore the guests with another long poem/reading.